After 20 years if being together wife finally knows about my secret! I feel like i have been born again. How she found out was scary and unfair to her, it's been tough and she has been a trooper. I took for granted how much she loves me, she is amazing. We are going slowly and she has yet to see me in my panties. We will get there, we are going at her place. I'm am so blessed, it's not going to be easy. But we will get through this with honesty (i did a lot of sneaking and covering up) and hard work. I hope being part of this forum helps educated both her and i. Thanks for being here.