I am definitely submissive when dressed up. But as a guy I am very dominant. I dont mix my genders or roles at all. They are complete opposites haha.
I am definitely submissive when dressed up. But as a guy I am very dominant. I dont mix my genders or roles at all. They are complete opposites haha.
In my normal life, I can be very dominant. But since I am Ashley more and more. I find that she is submissive. Which suits my SO just fine.
Definitely submissive....come and get me GG girls!
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Submissive. I don't do the BDSM thing at all.
I'm a nice Jewish girl.
I'm not a girl, Not yet a woman.
Dominant as a male, tone downed dominant as female.
I'm a dominant - a top. Oh, I can switch and be a submissive, but you better be pretty freaking strong, and in reality I'll end up running the show anyway.
This surprised me a lot. I was certain I was a submissive - that's what women are supposed to be, right? Well, actually that isn't true at all. I'm a lousy submissive. I can do it for a little while, but it takes effort in my part, and seriously, whoever I'm with better be on their "A" game, or I'll end up topping from the bottom.
I am definitely submissive.
Submissive here. Need to be more assertive. Always looking for that middle ground.
If it was easy, everyone would be doing it.
How about neither? I am neither very dominate nor really submissive. I am usually easy to get along with.
Like so many others here have said, I tend to be dominate in male mode and much more passive in fem mode. It is a nice switch; I do find it very relaxing to let her be more in charge. Only problem is that she sometimes has a hard time being "in the driver's seat."
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Pretty much submissive. Never had much luck when I tried to initiate relationships, and never really enjoyed the top role in sex. Learned how to do it, just didn't feel it deep down inside. I also tend to be deferential and really try to avoid confrontations or overly assertive behavior. My wife almost always initiates intimacy. So, pretty much submissive.
Sub when dressed.
Not sure I can classify as either, to be honest. My wife does like to be in control much of the time, and without getting graphic, seems like she prefers the top position more than she does bottom.
I don't have a problem with either, but do tend to side with her preferences.
When I'm dressed, Kristy is submissive ��
In male mode as the situation calls for. As Jessica submissive unless a strong need arises to be more dominate.
Always submissive. Dressed or undressed. Unless I'm at work. Then I'm an aggressive beotch. Lol.
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I hear that. Lol.
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Definitely submissive.
And, frankly, I hate it when a guy doesn't take charge.
For instance, I had a date tonight.
Nice guy.
Reasonably attractive.
We'd been in communication and decided to meet.
We met for coffee.
So.
Time to get the check.
We both go for our wallets.
I offer to pay and HE LETS ME!
Now, the check was nothing.
And I can certainly pay my own way but, not the way I expected things to go down in a first date, to be honest.
It was a total turn off.
I know I'm wrong on this but I can't help feeling like I wanted him to take charge.
This guy is not going to be aggressive enough for me I think.
I don't want to be liberated! Lol.
Wow it does kins of suprise me that so many of the girls here link their dom/sub state to the way they dress. It's almost like that males have to be dominant and woman submissive. I honestly to not feel 100% confartable about it although I do find it interesting.
I als see that allot of the girls explicitly point out that they not refer to BDSMwell I don't mind doing the opposite.
90% Dominant
90% Non-monogamist
89% Switch
80% Experimentalist
78% Bondage giver
77% Degradation giver
73% Master/Mistress
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do not label me for i am unique
I am a very dominant male, real alpha type, but the opposite as Lesley which feels more natural and takes no effort. Only need to get the frock on and I am a much better person. However, I know I cannot mix the gender role, and would not want to.
Whilst en femme (dressed or in femme role) I am, and enjoy being very submissive
Although in male role I can be dominant but I like to be submissive
I tried submissive (not dressed) with a girlfriend once, thinking it would be arousing and fresh and new. I totally did not like it. I did not want to relinquish control and found it frightening. My girlfriend sensed my uneasiness and we reverted to our old roles and never tried it again. She loved submitting to me with and without light bondage. Awesome relationship, sorry it didn't work out.
In my current relationship, I am dominant. No problem, never going to change.
When dressing, I go sub. Hard.
Throwing in with dominant homme, submissive femme
I have always been submissive.
As a little gay boy.
As a CD en femme.
It's just me.
I like it. It makes me feel more girly.
I like it when a guy takes control.
So, I'm a victim of mid-century gender stereotypes I grew up with.
Funny thing is, my mum was independent woman's lib before it was mainstream.
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