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    Call me Pam pamela7's Avatar
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    as a human you have both and neither available. I prefer to match who i am with, i don't like dominating and i don't like submitting. In the wider social context, the world's problems are wrapped up in a bigger "game" of sub and dom, crime and punishment etc. this forum meekly follows those rules for example.
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    Both for sure.

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    I'm a switch. I can be dominant or submissive depending on the situation.

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    Submissive when dressed. Not particularly dominant when in male mode and I avoid groups of loud hyper-masculine men. All of my male friends tend to be quiet types and not aggresive.

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    Dominant. Definitely. My femme persona is inspired by Artemis from greek mythology, so I follow that line. As a male I mostly spend ny time with women and I have always been a sensitive guy, but when in bed I totally change.
    -Tamina Purefoy.

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    Member Anne K's Avatar
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    I live in the grey zone in between dominant and submissive. I find that allowing my SO to steer the direction makes life more interesting for both of us.

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    I'm more dom, but play the sub during play time.

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    Carla-love your responses...seem to think the way I do quite a bit. Don't know if really are from Area 51 but hope to meet some day. Not being weird, just that I seem to identify with lots of stuff.

    Re OP's question...I 'need' to be dominant at work, and suppose I'm modestly so just in regular drab. I love being feminine and being 'led' a little...

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    Definitely a submissive girl

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    Junior Member Luciana's Avatar
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    In my natural state I am dominant. But when en-femme I like to think that I am submissive. There are two different persons inside me I think! However, I don't have a double personality. Luciana is (and always was) a fantasy character living inside myself. But as any character, she has her own particular traces!


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    I'm shy and submissive whether dressed or not.

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    I used to be very dominate before I realized or came to term with being Transgender and now that I am dealing with these feelings of wanting to be a woman I totally do not ever want to be dominate at all ever again and want to be totally submissive and passive.

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    I enjoy being submissive all the time and treated with sensitive . My wife allows me wear a dress and panties and tells me i look pretty . I enjoy her being in charge even dressed as a male as I am more fem than masculine.

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    OK, so here is a curve ball to most of the replies made to this point. I have been submissive most of my life in drab. I have experienced the BDSM scene, And enjoyed it, made some lifelong friends. I was recently chatting with one our friends, she knows of my desires to express myself enfemme more frequently and openly. She has developed a wish to switch and be more dominant, we chaulked it up to getting older and more experienced. When questioned I said i have no thought of dominating when drab, but have been entertaining thoughts to dominate enfemme. She thought that almost made sense for me.

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    When in doubt? Smile! Chrissi's Avatar
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    I'm neither. I'm an outgoing person and my personality is the same both as Chrissi or Chris. I guess if you wanted to stereotype I'm a bit of a tomboyish girl and soft sensitive guy. Never really thought of myself as Dominant nor submissive. I take charge when I have to, but it's subtle and gentle and encouraging. At the same time though, I never want to be the leader, or the captain or the general.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yoshisaur View Post
    I'm submissive most of the time but can be dominant when no one else wants to take charge.
    That's the same with me!

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    I would prefer to be an equal partner in anything
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    I am submissive. Nevertheless, when stressed and unaided by the comfort of cross-dressing, I can be short-tempered at times with my wife. She deserves better, not least because she is kind enough to indulge my cravings for feminisation and being taken anally.

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    Neither dominant or submissive I'm passive. Which aggressive people take advantage of as they see it as a weakness. I then get irritated at myself for never being assertive when I need to stop someone taking advantage of me. I'd rather people just live and let live. (If we are talking about the bedroom then both and in-between.)
    Last edited by Jennifer B; 10-13-2015 at 05:55 PM.

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    Submissive, but never "off duty".

    Submissive to me does not mean passive, though elements of passivity exist.

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    I think I am a little of both, but tend to be more of the dominant type.

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    Sub sub sub sub

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    At one time I would have said submissive, but that's really the wrong word. What I am is a bottom. As I see it, bottoming is a role and submissiveness is an attitude. I'm constitutionally incapable of being submissive as anyone who has had the misfortune of trying to control me will tell you. I was recently showing my daughter (a school psychologist) my report cards and correspondence from teachers and school admins that I found among my mother's effects. She looked up at me and said, when she could stop laughing, "We call that Oppositional Defiant Disorder!" I said, "Who came up with that? Stalin?"

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    I think I'm mostly dominant, but there is a desire to be submissive to my wife. She, however is not dominant and is unable to even "play" a dominate role.

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    I guess I would say I'm more sub,but I'm nobodys puppet either.

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