So I've been driving down this road for some 8 yrs now. Along the way, I have had a few successes, as well as some spectacular failures. Moments of great inspiration, and great woe. Too many set-backs to count, and never enough (seemingly) progress. That's just how life works.
Question is, where is that off ramp? What is the ultimate destination of this journey? When is it over?
Does it end with SRS? Not for me personally. Should I get implants? No, I wish they were bigger, but I'll live with my B cups, thank you. Does it end when someone ELSE tells you "there, now you're a complete...."?
I know that I don't have the answer, all I can do is hang on the bars and ride on. I'm sure I will have plenty more road-rash before it's over.