I have been on here for around seven years. There have been so many who posted on here, who have simply vanished, it seems! I have tried to contact some, but gotten no responses. Guessing is all we can do, about all the alumni, from this site. I can only guess some have passed away, some gave it all up, spouse made them stop, conversion to religion that forbids, joined the military, got injured and can't dress, serious diseases, tragedies, etc. But, so many have just disappeared from this site! And so many, many members dressup nanes still on the list. Just wondering.