I'm a single man, never married, not had many girlfriends, but crossdressing has more or less ruled my life for over 50 years.
I started aged 4 or 5 dressing up in my sister's clothes and then when I got to my mid teens (about 16), I started buying clothes for myself at charity shops. And boy that was so embarrassing.
There weren't many catalogues out back then so there was not the choice we have now.
I would say being a crossdresser has sort of ruined my life in a way because I couldn't be a proper man when I was younger. I am straight by the way, so when most guys at the age of 16 are wondering how they're going to get a girlfriend, I was figuring out how I was going to get into a skirt. I honestly say it is with some regret the crossdressing came before any attempt to bed a girl or have a girlfriend.
Crossdresing was something I hid back then for fear of being labelled a gay man. Now I couldn't give two hoots who thinks I am a crossdresser.
Indeed I am still doing it today. I live alone and on some days because I work from home I can spend all day in women's clothes. It used to excite me sexually but no longer.
I do it, just because I want to. If I wake up one day and think, 'right, it's a women's clothes all day', then that's how it's got to be. Ha. It's funny but crossdressing is still really weird when I thinking about it.