To me, it was ironic that in a thread at least partially about this very thing, somebody came in and started their post with the textbook version. Apologies if I offended anybody by finding the irony funny, and posting a picture of Alanis Morrisette singing a ridiculous song called "Ironic". To be fair, I tried to add a bunch of smiley faces too, but the editor didn't like it.
In my actual response to the body of Dawn's post, i think I responded very fairly and was not insulting at all. In fact, IMO, I was downright encouraging, because the whole point is that I'm PERFECTLY HAPPY to read about just about anybody's experiences, so long as they're presented for what they are. I love to read about Marcelle's experiences, because they are often so different than my own. I learn a lot from her posts. I appreciate the fact that she never tries to apply her experiences to other situations that they don't apply to. She says who she is, and talks about that. When she offers input on experiences different from her own, I think she's always incredibly thoughtful and responsible about how she does so, by offering them up as contrast to others' experiences rather than attempting redefinition of them. I think all of that is friggin' awesome, and I personally will be thrilled if more people start doing that.