My SO went to her parents for the weekend after we had dinner. I was home during the evening and didn’t actually plan on going out again yesterday. I have been out dressing during night time several times before, and I don’t know why I suddenly wanted to go out. I wore a blue dress below the knees, panty hose and red high heels. I caught the bus downtown and nothing really happened there. At the first place a girl stopped me and told me I looked wonderful and asked me where I got the dress from. She also asked me why I was dressed this way. I told her I liked to do it and that I was feeling nice dressed like this. She than became even more enthusiastic and said she had even more respect. Later three guys sitting at a table stopped me before I entered the bar. They told me that they respected what I did, and said they were impressed that I choose to be my self. As I was walking around several people stopped to talk with me. I can not write about all the encounters. I ended up sitting with a group of six people talking and dancing. What I find interesting is that first they are interested in my dressing, but after a short period we always end up talking about ordinary things as life and family and so on.
I left and went to another club. On my way I was walking through the streets of the city with a lot of drunk people all over. I never heard one negative comment the hole night. One girl ran towards me from behind and asked if she could tell me something. She said I made her happy because she could see that I was able to be my self this way in her city. We kept on talking and she was so nice. When I left she asked me for a hug and wished me a great night and told me thank you for what I did.
At the last club it wasn’t as crowded as the first place. I sat down at a table. After about ten minutes a nice couple came over and asked if they could sit with me. After the ordinary questions about dressing we ended up talking about everything else for an hour before the place closed. They were really nice. I left and eat a hamburger before I got in a taxi on my way home.
The moral of the story isn’t bragging about what I have done. It is what is said in several threads about being careful about going out where people are drunk because we could get in trouble. I know some places this could be the case, but my experience is the opposite. As I end up saying in all my threads I go out as a man in a dress all male above the shoulders and everyone sees that I am a crossdresser and it is very obvious. If I am being provocative to someone, at least they don’t tell me. My experience from these adventures is that when people have been drinking they tell the truth and they have the guts to approach me to talk to me about it. The interesting thing is that almost everyone is positive that we are able to express our self, and I have very seldom heard any negative comments. Maybe this is because most people are turning to get positive about crossdressing and self expression. At least as long it isn’t their own husband or son. But, that is another story….
Thanks for reading. I hope to hear about your experiences.