I will use the ladies room. Years ago, I was at a trangendered convention and there was a function held at the Moose Hall. We were told that we couldn't use the ladies room, but had to use the men's room. While I was visiting and socializing with some of the members from the Moose Lodge, I mentioned to the lady I was talking to, that I would be leaving in a while. She then asked me why I was going to leave so early, I told her that I would need to use the rest room in a while and didn't feel comfortable in the men's room dressed as I was, if fact I asked her if she would feel comfortable going into the men's room dressed as I was; which she agreed with me that she wouldn't want to either. As it turned out, she was the person that set the policy and then announced that it was okay for us to use the ladies room. I think that it depends on how you act; which will determine the reaction you get in a lot of areas.