1. Spend a full 7 days en femme and be able to go out shopping, etc
2. Have a makeup tutorial/makeover
3. A professional photo shoot en femme
4. Be fitted for a wedding dress and have a "wedding day"
5. Fly around the country en femme
1. Spend a full 7 days en femme and be able to go out shopping, etc
2. Have a makeup tutorial/makeover
3. A professional photo shoot en femme
4. Be fitted for a wedding dress and have a "wedding day"
5. Fly around the country en femme
go out in public once just to know how it feels (i would count halloween, anything public counts)
try a wedding dress
wear a non-plus size outfit
do or have done really nice makeup that makes me fail to recognize myself
meet a fellow cd/tg in person regardless of how i am dressed just to be in the company of some in person i can relate to
find decent clip on earrings as they all seem to fall off too easy!
"There's a she wolf in the closet, open up and set her free" - shakira
Hmmm, I'm out all the time but I try to avoid people, I think 'boldly going where no man has gone before'
Wonder if Captain Kirk was talking about going to the space mall en femme and using the ladies room...boldly...swish! 😉
Hi Lacy, One of the things on my bucket list is getting a wedding gown.
Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......
I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !
If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.
Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!
1.) Continue to improve my makeup skills.
2.) Do more lower body workouts & get my waist as small as I can
3.) Make a pair of skin tight shorts presentable in public, tucking just needs to improve a little.
4.) Get the confidence to go out in public for the first time.
Just Roll With It
Win the lottery and go full time.
Heck, win the lottery.
Lose weight.
Be the first crossdresser on the moon (assuming there hasn't been one yet.)
A great thread. There are many "things" on my list but the fundamental one would be (like CourtneyBme): be comfortable and passable enough to spend 7 days en femme.
1. Shave my beard off.
2. Learn to do makeup.
3. Spend a full day in dressed, visiting the places I like to spend time at.
4. Spend the day with my wife doing #3.
5. Attend a CD event.
6. Find a lifetime supply of my favorite pantyhose.
7. Lose 50 lbs. so that I look good in my old dressed without having to wear a corset.
I would love to have more time to enjoy this and other activities. It would be wonderful to be able to have several days dressed, listening to music, watching movies, reading, cooking, doing "not much", and relaxing.
Life is short.
Kate
I'm dreaming of having a make over at true colors and spending a week in New hope enfemme. If I need a touchup I will pop back in to true colors and get refreshed.
Aint nothin gonna happen that aint supposed too!
Glue for breast forms
More clothes
Improve make up skills
Garter belt and hose
Another wig
1. Get a professional makeover and photo shoot
2. Attend a CD event
3. Go on vacation en femme with my wife
4. and get more clothes....
- Claire
Already have ears pierced and wear emerald studs 24/7 as a male. Really not a problem in FL. The only person who said anything is my 15 year old nephew who noticed them as I walked (as an uncle) into a restaurant for a long overdue dinner. He loudly pointed it out to his mother and I replied just as loudly that he must be jealous. He grinned. So with that "to do" accomplished, my list is:
1) Learn to do makeup better
2) Repeat 1
3) Improve my wardrobe
4) Dinner with my SO en femme
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Nice "to do" Blue Orchid!
I am getting married next year and my SO (GG) and I batted around reversing roles for the rehearsal dinner. We had a wonder time imagining my wedding gown and the reaction from the family and friends. I think I could have pulled it off nicely, but eventually reality returned and we decided it may spoil the wedding. Too bad, I was looking forward to the dress. The drama would have been.........intersting!
I see some pretty good things posted here but also things that are so simple that they shouldn't be on anyone's "list", they can so easily be done. How hard is it to shave the beard? Buy more clothes? Buy a wig?
Just do it.
1. Get my ears pierced.
2. Lose enough weight to be a skinny bitch.
3. Grow my hair outand have it cut in a fem style.
4. Be fur free.
5. The one that means most-have my wife's acceptance of this side of me.
Probably repeat my holiday schedule and be more "out".
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
1. Loose weight, about 40 lbs., so I can wear a size 14 again
2. Expand my wardrobe to include nicer fitting and better quality skirt suits and dresses, likely these will need to be custom made and expensive.
3. Attend a large CD event such as Southern Comfort (like the old one I have heard so much about)
4. Improve Shoe wardrobe (size 15-16 wide is so hard to find)
While some of the things on my list, such as 2 and 3, may seem easy to accomplish, it is somewhat of a reflection on how much I let my CDing get in the way of life. I just have not taken the time away from other things, like going on family vacations, to go to one of the big CD events. Someday there will be time for it all. Until then, I have a list to peck away at.
Makeup is not on my list at the current time. It may surprise or shock some of you that I really don't have much interest in makeup. That's why its not on my list.
I would really like to have a wedding/commitment ceremony with my wife committing to Jennifer. I get to wear the dress.
I would like this to be after she goes out and buys me a diamond engagement ring and proposes.
Right now I simply want a nice light-weight fall jacket that will go with everything. So far I've had no luck... arrgggg!
Of course winning the lottery!! LOL
But even if the numbers don't come out, it would be great to one day, be able to while en femme;
- spending a weekend with the wife
- go shopping for clothes, shoes and makeup together
- have a nice dinner
nice thread here.
1. get a professional makeover --- i'm doing this in 2-3 weeks. yay!!!!
2. go to a wax salon and get some stuff done --- anyone ever done that?
Allow my hair to grow out.
Get my ears pierced.
Manicure and pedicure.
Lose weight.
Go out in public and do some shopping.
24/7/365 days as a woman.
For me, the impediment to buying more clothes and another wig is not the actual doing of it, it is the cost. Not to put too fine a point on it, but I have a little addiction to high end fashion. As a male I typically wear Ermengildo Zegna, Brooks Brothers and Versace to the office. I work hard and save all year for a trip to the outlet centers to buy those things, and en femme I don't do things any different -- I do my shopping for femme items at Off Fifth, Nordstrom Rack, and Neiman Marcus Last Call.
For me it is making my wife understand I love her and dressing doesn't interfere with that. I am a man who dresses as a girl (CROSSDRESS)...simple as that. More importantly if she accepts me she can have the husband that most women never have, loving, willing to do anything for her and secure...
No regrets except I should have got dressed & stepped out sooner.