I often present 'en andro' (skinny jeans, ladies (black) jacket, VERY light makeup...hint of lipstick and mascara) and most people don't use any gender identifier at all when in that 'mode' and I take it as a compliment (as a full on guy, I'm always refered to as 'sir' and I get it 😕 )...the few times when 'en andro' I get a 'sir' and think WT《gosh darn heck》... I look like Boy George just got hit by a bus... but 'sir', really!?
I'd prefer a weird look and you handing me my change with your arm stretched out to avoid getting the pink cooties flying off me 😅
