So what will make you kinky while crossdressed ..?
1)attracting males?
2)attracting females?
3)fetish like embarrassment of being caught?
4)any other kinky-ness?
So what will make you kinky while crossdressed ..?
1)attracting males?
2)attracting females?
3)fetish like embarrassment of being caught?
4)any other kinky-ness?
None of the above.
Nope, nor me......
Sarah Jane : > I wish I was a house wife
Honestly nothing. For me being transgender if about coming to terms with who I am, not how how womens cloths causes me to act.
Erica
I hate loaded questions. I hate being accused. What makes me kinky makes me kinky no matter what I am wearing.
xxoo
Jennifer
Well, I won't lie and say it doesn't make me feel a little sensuous
But honestly, if me dressing up to compensate for the lack of close adult female intimacy in my life, and which makes me feel more calmer than usual, and that I find that I actually just enjoy wearing femme attire makes me somehow kinky, then I'm unashamedly guilty of it. It's just pieces of cloth at the end of the day, and didn't the rich elite posh nobs of the 18th century in England wear lots of makeup too?
Of course though if I had a wife or girlfriend who would happily be more than willing to share my clothes passion with and make love with the impression that she's making love to a woman although she isn't really, and she is straight, then of course for her at least it would be as kinky as it gets
Last edited by Kimberley May; 11-02-2015 at 07:07 PM. Reason: elaboration.
Gurlz they wanna have fu'hun. Oh gurlz just wanna have fu'hun x
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Definitely, and no harm in that too. I'd say it's far more kinkier to dress as Tarzan and Jane, the teacher and the schoolgirl, or Batman and Robin
Last edited by Lorileah; 11-02-2015 at 05:43 PM. Reason: no need to quote whole post above yours
Gurlz they wanna have fu'hun. Oh gurlz just wanna have fu'hun x
Define 'kinky'...?
1) If you can put on a good enough 'show' to attract males when expressing your feminine side, that may make them kinky, but not necessarily you...
2) Ditto
3) Ah, now... I think if you read enough here you will agree that there is something in this one. While so many of us retain a residual feeling of wrongness thanks to decades of programming, we can't help but feel that even when we're expressing our internal rightness - and where would that be more evident than if someone caught one of us Closeteers in the act...
4) Other stuff? Oodles of kinkyness... but not related to this expression and none of your darned business....
Katey x
"Put some lipstick on - Perfume your neck and slip your high heels on
Rinse and curl your hair - Loosen your hips, and get a dress to wear" Stefani Germanotta
Why do you assume that one becomes "kinky" when dressed?
While some cross dressers dress for a kink, many do not.
What makes me "kinky when dressed"? Nothing. Nothing at all. I can't explain why I want to dress like a female but it's not about being kinky. Never has been.
That question may be interpreted in two different ways...
1. As most people have taken it, is being dressed kind of "kinky" in and of itself? Or...
2. When you ARE dressed, what would make you do kinky things?
Perhaps the OP can clarify a little...
Lacy PJs
Last edited by Lorileah; 11-02-2015 at 05:43 PM. Reason: no needto quote post abppve yours in full
Not a damned thing. I don't dress the way I do for some sort of sexual thrill. I don't go out trolling bars for unsuspecting guys to surprise. I dress like this because it's how I want to dress. Nothing kinky about that.
Booze.....is that a good enough answer.......LOL.....
what's kinky?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dJFyz73MRcg
I used to believe this, now I'm in the company of many tiggers. A tigger does not wonder why she is a tigger, she just is a tigger.
thanks to krististeph: tigger = TG'er .. T-I-GG-er
maybe its my age but nothing will make me kinky when dressed. i dress for me,
it makes me feel good and i enjoy going out just to be out... so i guess my answer
would be N/A to all of the questions.
now with that said, if a nice mature gentleman approached me while out, i just might
show him some "kink"... LOL
paula
Very small curlers.
That said, many (most?) TG people don't dress for sexual reasons. In fact, getting aroused is the last thing most CDers want when dressed.
I really wish we could get rid of the "kink" connotation of dressing. It trivializes what most of us do and makes it attractive to prurient interests. If someone wants to spice up their sex life with clothing of the opposite sex, fine, but let's call it what it is, fetishism, not crossdressing.
Eryn
"These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I! How about that!" [Kaylee, in Firefly] [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
"What do you care what other people think?" [Arlene Feynman, to her husband Richard]
"She's taller than all the women in my family, combined!" [Howard, in The Big Bang Theory]
"Tall, tall girl. The woman could hunt geese with a rake!" [Mary Cooper, in The Big Bang Theory]
No kinky for me. Why is anything kinky. I dress because. My SO asked me that the other day. After silence for several hours I told her that no one on this entire site knows why and I do not either.
Part Time Girl
Kinky?.....Nope. My CD-ing is camouflage.
M.
eh it's both? transvestic fetishism IS both fetishism AND crossdressing!
it's so weird on this board how people really REALLY like to downplay / pretend this side of CDing doesn't exist... ?
or marginalize it / put it down as much as possible!
it's kinda similar to My Little Pony and the bronies! and the darker side! or anime!
hmm!
tut tut!
one could also say:
While some crossdressers don't dress as a kinky activity... many DO!
it goes both ways!
as Reine and others have stated... search up for crossdressing and transvestite and traps and all that jazz in google or whatnot... whether text (naughty stories! porn!) or pictures...
look up sissies and guys in panties and tumblr sites of wanting to BE a girl... hypno vids... it's all there
and people on here and certain other more legitimate TG sites like to conveniently ignore it or downplay it
or brush Those People aside as dirty deviant perverts
(much like the regular crowd of normies / smuggles would us!)
eyah!
don't kink shame me, bro!
Hmmm ... Junemay, I would have asked your question a different way in order to get answers. A lot of people don't like to think of themselves as kinky.
I would have given a choice of what sexual interests there are when dressed, and if they are different than when not dressed: males, females, other CDers, or solo-dressing, and also if any situations are particularly exciting (which will likely only apply to newbies) like the possibility of getting caught, forced feminization, etc. And I would have followed up my question with,
"If you are past feeling sexual when you are dressed, how would you have answered this question when you first started out?"
... but, if it is sexual for you and you are wanting to connect with other people like you, I'm guessing that CDers for whom this is purely sexual don't hang out here much because of the non-sex-talk rules. We don't have all that many regular posters, I'm guessing only a few hundred people.
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Reine
The true fact is, lots of CD's are highly sexed people, but that doesn't mean most, and what sexual orientation isn't highly sexed anyway? Although I don't believe CD is actually a sexual orientation.
Many of the hairy pantie wearers (as I'm personally seeing atm) are really the majority of the most highly sexed (if we're really honest). And also those who call themselves sissy girls wearing all those frilly cosplay little girl costumes are pretty blatant. Hey, no GG would be seen dead in what they wear, all the sissy's who love to be dominated are all about kinky only, no bones about it. Some are downright dirty.
They are not hard to find at all, they're all over the net and all after one thing only, and that is c**k. I am still inundated with offers. I find it flattering and I guess I pricktease them a little, but I'm not really interested. I'm a str8 guy (I think or at the most temporary fussily heteroflexible). It's as far as it really goes with me.
But hey, it's all the same thing either with the gay, bi or straight community anyway. In other words, our sexual appetite has nothing to do with how we dress.
Last edited by Katey888; 11-03-2015 at 07:09 AM. Reason: TMI and explicit
Gurlz they wanna have fu'hun. Oh gurlz just wanna have fu'hun x
Over the last few years I have started kinking it up..... dabbling into breast bondage.... and have this thing about cow milking machines.... moooo.... lol Kind of independent from actual crossdressing but very related to feminizing my body and growing breasts.
ahh girls ....if kinky is not so good word i'll reframe the question...like many have suggested ....thanks to the few who have answered frankly .....
Kinky I meant here is .....Everbody will be having some sexual feelings and when you are dressed as a girl how you feel that ? ..I certainly know the rules but I am not really breaking the rules I believe
Ohhhhh... Sexual feelings.... I have none... zip... nothing. I should have been a nun.....