One day, many years ago, my (then very pregnant) cousin came to visit my parents. Of course, the subject of names for the baby came around and my father volunteered the information that he & mum had decided that had I been born a girl they were going to name me Judith! A few weeks later my cousin gave birth and named her daughter - you guessed it -'Judith'. Some years later, having forgotten this conversation, I also chose 'Judith' for myself.
Neither my cousin nor 'Judith jnr' know about this Judith!