I've read about tucking, it was really helpfull for me.
I've read about support of your SO, about telling your couple about you cding, but I haven't read about sexual activity with men and if your wives know about it. I'd like to hear about it because I'm thinking to share my cd hobby, that at this point is more than a hobby for me. Being a cd is part of my life and I feel frustrated that I can't do it with freedom. I feel bad hidden it from my loved wife but I know is gonna be hard for her because we are from a latinamerican country and just last years they are open more to homosexuality but being straight and cding, being bisexual and like sex with my wife but with men too is something I haven't heard here.
So as always, I expect.you honest and open shares...

Vanessa.