I do the laundry and I love the feel of my wife's lee Relaxed fit at the waist jeans. Well I mentioned it to her that they feel so comfortable and she replied "well see if you can find a size that fits." I went the other day and 12L seemed good. That night I modeled them for her and she said " They look good to me." So now I can wear the same jeans as her when we go out or just anytime.