My SO is happy and accepting. Throughout our relationship we've dealt with problems along the lines of "the one who has the problem with the other has to sort it out", and it's worked really well. I've seen so many threads and members bemoaning unaccepting SO's. So here is my proposal:
the DADT SO/spouse/partner should be referred to a therapist to sort out their lack of acceptance.
My philosophy is that the only thing to be intolerant of is - intolerance.
Discuss: