Hi all!
Sorry for the new thread, but I was looking for information and this seemed the best method to get it.
I have recently finished the evaluation stage of therapy (they ask all sorts of background questions, etc) and the therapist has determined I am TG and that MtF is not far off on the horizon. I was hoping I could get a basic sort of 'what to expect' thread going, as this is all new to me, and well so many of you have been through it already.
I'll start seeing my TG specialist next month, once a week, but for how long, and what not I do not know. I understand what hormones do and how they are often prescribed, but do not understand when they are prescribed (at what point does the pshrink say, "You should begin now and start HRT.") I have a decent idea about transition. Not that it is the be all end all, but I just finished Jennifer Finney Boylan's "She's Not There" which describes much of the transition process, and does so quite well. (BTW I feel I could have written whole chapters of that book, if you have read the book, did/do you have the same feeling?)
My major fear is that she'll come back to me after some months of therapy and say something like "You're androgynous, not fit for transition, and therefore must live out life as a man." Which, incidentally has been something I have been told most of my life "Dude, your a guy. What are you thinking?!?"
So in closing, if you have advice, suggestions or stories to share, it would be appreciated. I do not have anyone close to talk to about this. I personally do not know any other transgendered people, and really would just like to have a discussion about what I may face in the near and long term.
Thank you for your time all!!!
Toodles!