OK there’s been loads of posts about being out and about for extended time frames and this in part is one of those.
I recently had the opportunity to spend 4 days/5 nights fully enfemme. Forms glued on, the works. During that time I was able to meet up with 2 others from this forum and attend a meeting of the Concorde group in Manchester, the 3 of us having first dined in a restaurant. Spend day times indulging in some retail therapy interacting with loads of SA’s. Attend a second CD/transgender support group meeting, spending time just chatting about this and that. I paid for fuel in the kiosk at petrol stations. Used "The Ladies" public toilets as and when required. One evening I took myself off to the cinema, something I’d done once before, and was treated as any GG would be by the male SA which felt great. I also ate lunch in a seaside café and again was treated just as any GG would be, ignored by the other customers and trust me on this, I know I don’t pass. I suppose it does show just how more accepting society is becoming.
So here’s the thing. I’m now fairly confident in being out and about even though it’s a rare thing for me to me able to do. Upon returning to drab I was left with the question, “Next time what do I do to push the envelope that bit more?” I suppose trying on clothes is a possible next logical step although I must say the thought of that is scary.
So what can you suggest? In drab I don’t like shopping so even enfemme I need a reason for it. I just don’t want to be walking around shops just for the sake of it (this time there were things I needed). Even in this period I hadn’t anything specific to do one evening so I stayed in watching TV forgoing the chance to go out, something I wouldn't have done in the past.