There is a girls party down here on friday and I told the wife I would like to go. Now to be honest, I hid this a long time and four years ago she found out. We are on a "as long as you don't put on makeup and wig relationship lol we are good"....her take wasn't good ...trying to get her to understand I want to go out dressed and I am sure she is trying to get me to understand she is uncomfortable. Not sure how to proceed and I have been as delicate as possible, we share a therapsist who supports my position...but god only knows how this will turn out. Just thought I would share it here...because I am really excited about it...