So I have a friend that I work with. He's a pretty cool guy, relatively moderate on most things (politics, religion, etc.) I've been wanting to tell him that I'm genderfluid. To come out of the closet so to speak.
He recently told me he's occasionally worn his wife's clothes and that he's cool with telling me because he knows I wouldn't be bothered by it, (I confessed I've done it too). We've talked about transgender individuals before (we were watching tv at his place and a commercial for one of those reality tv shows came on) and he seems pretty cool with them.
And yet, my instinct says not to tell him. I've had really good luck so far. No one has rejected me. Most people kinda already knew (still trying to figure out how). Maybe it's because he's a friend AND co-worker, but I just can't bring myself to do it. What are your thoughts?