Is there anything prettier than a Lolita outfit with a rainbow tutu or minipetticoat, long curly hair, big hair bows, a touch of organic makeup, glitter, white leggings, bikini top, transparent shawl, and lime green high-heel rollerskates? (Forget the little Lolita hat, please.)
For me feminine means small outfits, lot of skin, lot of ruffles, seethrough, and tomboy. I guess it comes partly from Mom in her early days, including the tomboy part, though she didn't wear ruffles or short clothing.
UPDATE: I just found this neat article about Lolita fashion: http://fyeahlolita.blogspot.com/2013...es-lolita.html.