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    Sexual arousal

    Hello,

    I hope this post is appropriate.

    I just wondered if any other males get aroused when dressing up in either lingerie or in full woman mode? The reason I ask is I wondered if there was a way at all to control it? Id love to be able to slip things on without getting a fully aroused. I think the best solution is to not think about it all that much. After a while, my 'excitement' does fade and I go back to normal as if I'm wearing normal male clothes. But sometimes it can't be helped. The most annoying thing is trying slip on some underwear, which is impossible without anything slipping out.

    So, generally do men get aroused or does it have to be something specific when getting changed into feminine garments? Any solutions?

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    Used too.. With practice not quite so bad anymore, just a low but constant sensation of feeling sexy

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    No solution as I see it is a natural phenomenon, you just have to learn to regulate it.
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    Keep your panties in the freezer until you wear them.

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    it varies, familiarity can reduce it, but surely the arousal is a big part for many of us, of the whole experience ;-)
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    Ummm...YES. Always get aroused during the process of dressing. Makes me wonder how much of my situation is true crossdressing or just a fetish for heels, satin, lipstick....

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    Not so much anymore. When I was younger I was dressing for the arousal. Something about it being taboo I think. As my femme side matured, I started to dress like an everyday girl, instead of always putting on lingerie, and just wanted to express my femme self. With that, the arousal part went away.

    Every now and again, I'll still put on lingerie to heighten arousal, but it's no longer the primary goal of dressing for me.

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    I would say it's very common fetish or not I mean being able to dress pretty should get you excited.
    For me it's not so much anymore sense it's so much more normal for me now.
    However it still does happen usually when the makeup starts to go on

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    Many here say that for them it was a "passing phase" of their dressing.

    I'm 72 and have been dressing for 18 years. I'm STILL waiting for this exciting side effect of my dressing to pass!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    Many crossdressers progress from that stage. Some start during ealy puberty and sexual release often ends the session of dressing and guilt remains. There are labels for that-fetishistic tranvestism. As many years of this pass, many move to stage where there is arousal but not ending in orgasm. Then many move to where there is no sexual arousal from dressing, but a feeling of being at peace, calm, happiness. I get aroused now with thoughts of having someone be excited and desire to be with me while I am dressed. Having a DADT wife makes that very difficult.
    Hugs, Ellen

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    It use to, but not anymore. I guess living full time. I have gotten use to it. Or he has.

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    Maybe the first few times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beverley Sims View Post
    No solution as I see it is a natural phenomenon, you just have to learn to regulate it.
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    What you did there. I see it, lol
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    I always have that type of feeling everytime I thinking about dressing up. It's too explicit to say on here

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    Yes, I get sexual rush getting dressed. Always have and suspect I always will.

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    It was never much of a problem for me. I'd get aroused occasionally, esp. if I hadn't dressed for a while. But it's mostly always been just a nice feeling wearing feminine skirts etc.
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    I still get turned on every so often while I am dressing, or dressed. But for me now, it is just the fun of dressing that I enjoy.

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    Sometimes when first getting dressed. It passes very quickly and I get settled in.

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    I think it is common for younger cds but it fades with time. It is still a turn but not always sexual. I think we are kidding ourselves if we say it isn't
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    Im 19 on the 28th and whenever i get dressed i get aroused, it usually lasts 30 minutes or so then it's like im wearing normal clothes.
    Ellie May 😘

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    Being that im 27, I'm still get that excitement of wearing women stuff

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    Thomson,
    I checked your age and think back to the same age, I didn't dress for any length of time, it was purely sexual mostly with a partner . Dressing and arousal wasn't a problem , I also didn't have the time to spend dressed for any length of time even if I wanted to, that didn't really come until my forties when dressing and sexual needs began to even out .

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    If dressing sexy for effect yes. But normally not and when it does I think it more the sensual feeling of soft silky fabrics on freshly shave legs then the act of dressing.

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    When I first started dressing I did all the time. As time went on and as I dressed more frequently, it slowly passed. It isn't as prominent as it used to be but I still get the sexy feeling any time I dress.
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    At the risk of sounding very, well, male... why is it being arousing a problem?

    Being a transvestic fetishist does not make someone a bad person.

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