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    My experience is quite different from most, and is similar to PaulaQ's.

    Like others, I was quite fond of explicit images and self-satisfaction. That desire diminished considerably when I began this journey thinking that I was a crossdresser. It vanished entirely when I accepted my gender dysphoria for what it is and embraced my transgender femininity.

    Now, they are just clothes. Feminine clothing gets me no more aroused than masculine clothing.

    While I do enjoy dressing up and looking good, it's not for sexual arousal.

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    When very young it was extremely sexual. Even now being dressed gives one a pleasant sensual/sexual buzz but that does not always result in sexual gratification. However the reverse is always true. I cannot contemplate sexual activity without being dressed. Sex in male mode has no interest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tanya+ View Post
    Well I was a bit too "cocky" when i replied, then yesterday i had a rare chance to dress and had just squeezed into my new faux leather pants over pantyhose (with bra and lace top.. i was feeling a bit ****ty). i was tightly taped and tucked away, with no room for any funny business, and just bending over to secure the buckles on my 4 1/2" heels.. and uh oh.. out of nowhere a wet day-dream. So embarrassed.
    That's why I always wear an Always thin maxipad in my panties - takes care of unexpected thrills
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    This used to be a problem when I was younger. Back then, I'd... well, you know, satisfy myself. Afterwards was nice to just relax into my femme world.
    Not so much problem these days where it's all about just being myself.
    When lost, alone, or blue I know I can always get through the day, for I've always another shade of lipstick to make things right!

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    I find dressing quite arousing. Although I don't feel the need to pleasure myself as I used to. Instead I enjoy the sensual charge that fills me.
    A similar type of sensation like the "pink fog" but different in it's own sense. Over the years I learned that it's the chase that's more exhilarating then the actual "kill".

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    I am glad that you posted this thread. I find the whole dressing thing arousing. Make up, the lingerie and all. I do feel that this is a part of the feeling of wanting to be feminine, at least for me, and I do feel sensual while dressed and during the process. But, I must say that it isn't just the knowing what I am doing, I think women have such wonderful choices of what they can wear. Every part of the regalia has so many different styles and moods that men's clothing just doesn't have.

    I have talked to my sister about this subject, she knows about me and is totally supportive about it, and she can understand why I do what I do.

    I usually feel more aroused when I have something new to wear and sometimes when I try a new eye shadow or lip stick. It is not wrong to feel this and I don't always become someone excited while dressing and many others here have said that very thing. If one does feel different while dressed then that is good, but it is not for all. I will alway feel aroused when dressed and am happy about that as should anybody else who feels it. Be what you are, in whatever way it takes.

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    it happens when my nylon covered legs rub each other and my skirt gently brushes my knees.Sends chills up my spine
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    When I was younger arousal was a problem, and dressing didn't help at all.
    now that I am older I have it more under control, and not an issue at all when dressing
    a tight tuck solves that issue.
    my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress

    "Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"

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    What I do is I tuck first, once you are properly tucked arrousal does not happen, at least for me

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    I find Paula and MsVal's responses very intriguing. I wonder if that is part of the difference between CD and TS?
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    The secret to "not getting aroused" is -----AGE!!!!! Once you get to a certain age the arousal effect almost, I mean ALMOST disappears. Yes, I am at that age but still need, want and will become the woman I was meant to be.

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    I still get aroused when dresssed and I am 73 so age didnt change me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CONSUELO View Post
    When very young it was extremely sexual. Even now being dressed gives one a pleasant sensual/sexual buzz but that does not always result in sexual gratification. However the reverse is always true. I cannot contemplate sexual activity without being dressed. Sex in male mode has no interest.
    Here too. I have zero arousal in male mode or (hope this isn't TMI) sex via penetration. Actually, keeps me out of trouble.

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    I got major aroused when I was younger. I used to spray a little sunburn spray on myself, which had a cooling and numbing effect. I had an orgasm a couple times while walking down the street, in heels, when my pantyhose were rubbing just a little too much on the front of me, and feeling way too good. I felt my knees buckling, and leaned against a building until it passed, and hoped no one saw me and thought I needed help. True story. Don't have that problem anymore, but I still get aroused.

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    To be serious, I use to get aroused much easier years ago. Now in my late 50s it takes allot more work.

    I have to look in the mirror and see a woman, it's allot more work doing makeup and hair but when your reach your goal it's so worth it.

    Have fun to slow down the arousal leading to the fireworks wear looser fitting garments in the crotch area.
    "This is ME" I am not CRAZY, I'm just a GUY who likes dresses!
    Since allot of men dress up in woman's clothing that makes it a manly thing to do!
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    I've read this entire thread, and now I feel like I'm missing out on something. I've dressed singe I was 7, and I've never been able to be aroused by it at all. I can observe, "yeah, that's an attractive presentation." I know whan I look good and when I don't.

    I occasionally try to be aroused drssed, and sometimes I can, but only if I pull other fantasy content into the mix that I DO fetishize, making the dressing esentailly a non-factor in the equation. I've had sex in both modes, and it's essentially the same.

    I think I'm a tough nut to crack, even for myself, because I had to be that way in a rough sort of childhood. Sometimes I feel I keep waiting for this magic key to unlock this floodgate of sexual repression, and unleash some repressed highly sexual being within, but maybe I'm just not overly sexual in drive.

    Sometimes I wish I had a sexual fetish that owned me. It would be arousing to not be in control of it. Actually, for my, the lack of control would be the arousing part. heh. In a sexual catch 22 I guess.
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    I think how long this lasts and to what degree depends on the person. For me it doesn't happen all the time or it may even happen after being dressed for a while. One reason I use control garments for my tuck is this unknown.
    My guess is that transexuals may not experience this or if so the reason may be different. Because this happens, doesn't make me a transvestic fetishist or a bad person.

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    Wow ... I'm surprised that some of the girls here report that tucking prevents or reduces sexual arousal. This was never the case for me. Getting tucked--which I always had to do first, because as soon as I had put on anything feminine, the arousal would occur and tucking would become impossible--was a sexy thing in itself, and I found the appearance of that part of my body while tucked to be a very exciting part of my dressup routine. I could be fully aroused while dressed up and tucked, and like some others, could even have an orgasm that way.

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    Dressing makes me feel wonderful if arousal is a product of that feeling So be it.
    I don't dress to become aroused but I'm sure the ladys become aroused as they put on their silky undies and tuck their breasts into their bra. I believe it's only natural

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    Honestly, I have found that tucking properly almost completely eliminates any visible signs of arousal. When I am en-femme, I can read and enjoy porn and yet not be visibly aroused. Mentally I may still enjoy it, but tucking blocks the additional blood flow.

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    To clarify, tucking needs to be done first or not at all for me. And as Lori said, the effects of tucking is in itself arousing, that is to see the smooth flat front is a snug pair of leggings or a skirt is awesome. Ceera hit on another point that I can be aroused without the physical effect and I've approached orgasm that way as well.
    Coincidentally enough, tomorrow this is a topic I have planned to discuss with my therapist. I would like to better understand this reaction for me. Just FYI, I Don't go to her to be cured!

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    For me arousal has not happened when dressed, its more like when im dressed i want to be fem and not think about my male side whatsoever. and also as many have said when you get to that age its harder to walk around with a boner like when we was in our 20s. maybe im not the normal.

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    in the beginning it was sexual but not so much any more. I think that since I have been dressing ( mostly underdressing) for 20+ years. it became common place. At times I do get a thrill out of dressing. I am human after all. I think.

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    Course I do. I love women so I enjoy the harmless fetish roleplay. I think there'd be something wrong with me if I didn't get aroused by it. Now if only I had the right understanding woman to intimately share it with, including the chicken fillets. That would be my idea of bliss.
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    It used to be a normal part of dressing for me when I was in my teens. Then over the years, the sexual arousal when dressing slowly diminished. Now, it comes and goes, depending on how I am feeling. For the most part, it is not there and my enjoyment comes through the joy of being dressed en-femme, at odd times, when my wife is out of the house shopping or visiting with her girlfriends, and I have a few hours of 'me-time'.
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