In one of the recent discussions between my wife and I about my crossdressing activities, she pointed a question at me that honestly caught me off guard without a clear answer.
When talking about me dressing up fully, she asked me "How does that make you feel when you are all dressed up?"
I couldn't honestly think of a way to describe the feeling, other than "I feel feminine and calmed.".
How would, or have, you answered this question?
Very hard to describe but.... calm, right, happy, sexy.
Like I'm being my authentic self.
Calm, happy, care free, beautiful
More like I feel I should be.
I probably would have taking the Tony the Tiger route, feels greeeeaaat!
Right now my answer would be "complete"
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I had a similar question asked of me when i started to see a therapist for the first time a week ago. I had the same answer as many of you that i typically feel calm, peaceful, and sometimes sexy
"There's a she wolf in the closet, open up and set her free" - shakira
When I'm fully dressed is one of the few times I feel real joy and contentment.
At peace with myself and loving it! Everything feels like this is the way it should be!
Genny B
Dani (Genny before Transition)
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Wife would love that answerOriginally Posted by Maria 60
I feel like I'm letting a side of me that is repressed out in the open
In another thread on the same topic someone observed that it felt like they had stopped lying. That resonated with me. To me, it feels like I had been telling a long, complex, convoluted lie that I was struggling to keep track of. And when crossdressed it feels like I'm finally telling the truth. Nice feeling.
Although it's a good metaphor for the relief I feel when crossdressing, I don't feel like I actually am lying in life, though, I just feel more like I'm not telling a whole truth. Sorta like I'm grudgingly going along with telling kids that Santa Claus is real. I know it's not true, but I know it's important for them to believe it is.
Pretty.
Peace....
Happiness is what I feel
I feel like me.
i would have answered like this...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZJL4UGSbeFg
paula
It just feels right.
when I look in the mirror in Guy Mode, I really dislike what I see.
When I dress and look in the mirror it is just right.
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
Calmness, serenity, contentment. My true self.
I know I'm not a women, but when I'm completely dressed I no longer feel manly, I feel like a woman and that makes me calm and happy while dressed and I love that feeling.
I relate to everything you've all said, thanks!
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I feel pretty.
Please call me Jamie, I always_have crossdressed, I always will, "alwayshave".
I feel normal and comfortable, when dressed.
Oh my! How about every previous answer. I would just be blown away if my wife asked me that question. I'm trying to delicately thaw the DADT but, discussion is rare.
I would probably just say, "I feel wonderful when I'm dressed!"
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
Hi Lisa Karen, It just makes me feel so feminine and relaxed. ~~...
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