I know many here do this in private, and/or on a dadt basis.
I am curious about the experiences of those that are fully out or transitioning that have pre-teen children. I have a 9yo son, and am having to give serious thought to transitioning, and one of my hang-ups is how it would affect him. (Frustratingly enough, I have to worry about his mothers' reaction as well, as she has no reserves about talking bad about me to him). I honestly think it wouldn't be bad for him, but I'd really like to hear how it went for others.