When someone asks "any chance you mind having a male admirer?" what do you they want?

[AllieSF]

Katie, I am honestly sorry to hear about your bad experience and hope that everything works out well, for you. However, when I see absolute statements like yours and many others here, I believe that it needs to be clarified that not "all" people of whatever orientation, gender, religion or political view are bad. Again, if you had said "some" are perverts, then I could agree with that. As for watching porn, I would guess that as many Trans people watch porn as admirers do. Since we do not have any accurate data on that, who knows the true number? Your opinion is based on your specific experience with how many admirers? One or tow does not then classify all the rest as perverts and bad.

Good luck and take care.

[nikkiwindsor]

I've had both "admirers" through on-line forums and in person. I've liked the attention while clearly communicating that I'm heterosexual and not interested in their advances. Some were what you'd say were creepy and I quickly steered clear. Others were actually very interesting to talk to and remain in touch with me occasionally to talk and express their desires and physical attraction for trans-women.

[Jane G]

I'm happy to chat with people form this forum on the Pm level, but when I get the occasional male admirer I always shut the contact down. as soon as I can. usually by simply not responding.. If I was single that would probably not be the case, there are times when I would love to explore my feminine side, but I've been in a relationship with my wife for 38 years now and I am never going to betray the trust my wife has in me, however fun it might be to explore. The love I have for my wife is very real, the dream I have to explore will never go away , but nether will it replace that love.

[Laura.Taylor]

I reply to almost all emails and message I get from admirers. I thank them for their compliments and politely tell them that I'm not currently dating but thank you so much for the offer. I've only had one guy get angry because "no one ever denies me" (his words exactly). but he eventually went away.

[MarciManseau]

It's probably the 50th time he's said, "no one ever denies me" .

[Amanda M]

Have to say, if your avatar is fairly accurate, what on Earth do you expect? Lets face it, most men use the organ between the legs than the one between the ears when functioning socially.

What has happened, I suspect, is that you have come up against the real dilemma that every GG meets. I want to look attractive, but I do not want to be hit on sometimes.

It is hard to resolve, but please remember that males are stimulated - you should know, you are one - by visual appearance. You may well have to tone things down, just like many GGs have to. That is the price of looking stunning.

[JeanTG]

Lets face it, most men use the organ between the legs than the one between the ears when functioning socially.

Old story. When God created man, He gave us two heads.

Unfortunately, though, he gave us a blood supply only sufficient to run one at a time...

[Alice Torn]

I agree with Lorilea , and Amanda said it so well!! Men go for what looks nice! In my experiences, even last week, the men who answered my personal ads, and saw my pics, unanimously wanted sexual acts done to them, or done to me, and many send pics of their sexual organ, which turns me off. So, i won't meet them. I spell out what i will not do, in my ads!! Some, like 2 different men, last week, sounded ok with my boundries . One got more and more obnoxious, kept asking more and more about what sexual things i would do, though i already made it clear i would not do that! Finally broke it off. One got more and more demanding, and one started calling me bi__h! I had to cut them off! Caution may keep one from meeting anyone, but it can also save one from a tramatic experience and save one's life!

[michellechong]

I received quite a numbers of replies when I posted recently in 2 web-sites (with photos) asking for companionship, almost all of them who replied wanted sex. Some were more direct while a couple of them started with chit-chatting but ended up with the same question "Can we meet and have sex"