Hello, First off let me say my daughter is 24 and I have been married for just as long. When I first was married my need to crossdress was virtually non existing. Years later the urges became stronger each year. Now it is so difficult to live with this secret as most of us know. This site alone is often a great help.
Years ago when joining this forum I had intentions on telling my wife which has never happened. Now over the past few years my daughter has become friends with a few people like us. Good news is my daughter constantly defends them. She has researched so much about it just like I have. Bad news is most of her disagreements are with my wife. I truly believe my daughter would be very understanding. The only thing holding me back is the fact I don't think it would be fair to place the burden on her as well. It's already difficult for me keeping this a secret. On a lighter note it's kind of funny some of the things she tells me. Apparently she is more comfortable speaking to me about transgendered issues. At times serious issues but the other day I was floored as she mentioned how crossdressers use lipstick to cover beard shadow. I wanted to say no kidding
Thanks for taking the time to read this and Happy Holidays to All!
Jeanna