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    Wife's Attitude Toward Your Dressing

    OK, this is sort of a poll. What is your wife's attitude towards your crossdressing?

    1) She seems to actually enjoy it. She shops with me, sometimes buys me stuff on her own, she will sometimes ask me to dress when I wasn't planning on it and she willingly goes out in public with me as two women on the town.

    2) She accepts it. She may shop with me, she doesn't make snide remarks or give dirty looks when I am dressed around her and she treats me normally when I'm dressed. I don't have to hide my stuff in the basement, it's hanging in the closet with my other clothes.

    3) She tolerates it. I know she would rather I didn't do it. She makes negative comments from time to time and might make a face when she sees me dressed as a woman. She doesn't like to talk about it. My stuff has to be hidden away where she knows it's there but doesn't have to look at it.

    4) Don't ask, don't tell. She knows I do it but refuses to take part in any way including seeing me dressed as a woman. I have to hide my stuff where she cannot find it because she might destroy it.

    5) I've been afraid to tell her so she doesn't know about my dressing.


    I'll go first: #2. If my wife gets up early and goes to the gym or runs errands, it's the same reaction when she gets home, regardless of whether Krisi or Homer meets her at the door. Of course if we are going out, it has to be Homer, she doesn't want the neighbors or friends to meet Krisi. Could it be better? I suppose, but I think I'm pretty lucky and I don't want to mess up what I have.

    Anyone else?

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    #! for me.

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    For me it"s a 2

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    To some extent we are a 3. I wear panties almost constantly and they are in my underwear drawer. She bought panties for me once two years ago. While she did fold them for me at the beginning, she doesn't do that now. She throws them in my drawer. Now, that is not a big deal as I do the laundry, it is telling. She does not say anything about me wearing panties. I sleep in them, don't hide them and wear them everyday. She does not know about my other clothes and I do not know her reaction but I know that she does not want to be divorced from me and I believe that if I pushed it, she would not openly object to my other clothes. She would tolerate it but not be "down with it". At this time, I don't feel the need to add that to our dynamic.

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    4 for me :-(

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    2 for me

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    I'm somewhere between a two and a three, although I generally say she only tolerates it.

    2) ... she doesn't make snide remarks or give dirty looks when I am dressed around her ... she treats me normally when I'm dressed ... I don't have to hide my stuff ... it's hanging in the closet with my other clothes.

    3) ... I know she would rather I didn't do it (actually I would rather I didn't feel the need to do it) ... She doesn't like to talk about it ...


    I would add that she prefers me to dress in guy mode most of the time ... underdressing (panties) all the time is never a problem ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylor186 View Post
    I'm somewhere between a two and a three, although I generally say she only tolerates it.

    2) ... she doesn't make snide remarks or give dirty looks when I am dressed around her ... she treats me normally when I'm dressed ... I don't have to hide my stuff ... it's hanging in the closet with my other clothes.

    3) ... I know she would rather I didn't do it (actually I would rather I didn't feel the need to do it) ... She doesn't like to talk about it ...


    I would add that she prefers me to dress in guy mode most of the time ... underdressing (panties) all the time is never a problem ...
    I fully agree with Taylor between 2 and 3 similar comments too.....

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    My first wife was a 3 trending toward 5 as the marriage disintegrated. My second wife has been at #1 from the day we met, I am one lucky TV.

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    Between #1 and #2
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    Krisi,
    Put me down for 4.
    I would be nice to think these polls achieve something , I guess it may help other members who think they are the only ones in this situation.

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    #3 thats my wife

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    5 and I don't ever see that changing

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    Solid 5 never gonna change except if I stop. We all know how well that works out!..
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    Mostly a 2

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    I'm between #2 & #3 but with a bit of #1 thrown in. Sorry, I can't be totally black or white on this one, but I don't think many of us pigeon hole that well. Sounds like a familiar story.

    She bought me a little necklace and bracelet for Xmas. Nothing expensive but the gesture was immense.

    She accepts and/or tolerates it dependent on the day. I don't get dirty looks per se, but do get the odd remark every now and again. All my stuff is hung up or folded up in the drawers, with makeup, nails and other girl stuff on everyday display. She shops with me, whilst buying boots yesterday and having my ears pierced. Oh god, I'm looking forward to my first dangly earrings that don't clip on.

    She would prefer I didn't do it and isn't always open to discussing it either, but a little realignment yesterday has changed the dynamic at home, so we'll see how this progresses.

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    # 6, wife knows but has threatened me with bodily harm, like using a 9mm on me, if she see's hears' smells or tastes anything of it again when she first found out 15 yrs ago I took a cast iron frying pan to the side of the head.

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    Between 3 and 4. We are basically DADT because my SO has neither seen me dressed nor wants to, but she has found and purchased dresses for me.
    "When you come to a fork in the road, Take it!" - Yogi Berra
    I guess I did!

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    #5 My wife is against cding

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    Mine is stuck firmly between 2 and 3 these days.

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    I am a 2.2, let me explain. My wife's reasoning is that this has been going on since childhood so why try to stop the dressing and I enjoy it. She lets her thought known about style and makeup. My have bought me cloths and currently makeup. She will NEVER go out in public with me, period. Vicky is happy.

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    Chrisi - my wife's support is a 1.

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    How much credit does she get for your appearance ... you are gorgeous!! Not to mention soooo lucky to have a wife that you can share this with.

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    Solid 2 for me

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    I'm a 2. My wife accepts my dressing. She prefers not to see me dressed but is ok with it. Her only rule is that I don't bring it into the bedroom which I respect.

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