I to;d my daugthers and step mother the other day so its all out in the open,what shocked me the most all three were so surportive it was weird,the girls just went will we always knew ,does that mean we can borrow your stuff now,the step mother just said what makes you happy as you she doesn't care.its like the big weight off my shourlders,so far I have only had one negative from a friend and she was not worth a concern anyway