hello,
it may not be the progress of many here but after 2 years it seems more OK than i had ever imagined it could be,
she still does not want to see it and as stated by myself i dont know how comfortable i would be if she asked,
i have gone out to support meetings sometimes dressed most not, very stressful getting ready in the car.
for my birthday this year all i asked for was a venus razor, not what i got, i did however find some in my bathroom that weekend that she left out for me and i took the plunge.
this christmas i received a wet dry rechargeable razor ????
just had a christmas party this past weekend with support group ive been attending and kept inviting her to go, she didnt want to see anyone dressed and i told her i cant promise that but it would not be me, turns out she would have, i must admit i thought she (member i never met) was a little over dressed but we talked all night.
i have a very good long distance relationship with a member here and talk quite often, my wife has not said anything negative.
the best part just yesterday i started a meet-up for our local folks and hope to get out in the wild and meet some of the local girls for some shopping and such...here is a link if thats ok, http://www.meetup.com/jersey-shore-transgender-S-U-R-F/
im at the jersey shore. please feel free to check it out. any criticism would be appreciated.
my wife and i had talked about it some but i dont do anything CD wise without discussing it with her and getting input, she obviously had some concerns and she was ok in the end. even when we were DADT i never took that as a free pass to do as i wished without her ok so we were obligated to have discussions ( thanks reine d ) you helped a bunch their !!!
so from the end of my world 2 years ago to a better acceptance, (she still claims to not understand), and who are we to argue with that since i really dont either, she tolerates with less and less prejudice as time passes.
small conversations are had and im pleased with the direction we have traveled,
my post may be a bit premature since the reveal was the 13th two years ago january but i have done things i never thought i would be able to.
guess i can give a shout out here and thank all the people who showed support.....THANK YOU !!!!