You can't expect acceptance from those around you when you don't nurture it. Family discussions can be a teaching tool...if that is what you want it to be. The rigid view point of one parent does not have to be the only one in the household. Over and again,I hear about non acceptance. Yet,so many on here have been sneaking and dressing and developing "a feminine side" yet during that time made no effort toward opening doors toward acceptance from their family. And those "friends"..were not chosen wisely,I suspect. Now people have created an extra barrier outside of their "closet". I surely hope the younger people on here learn from this mistake.