Last night while watching TV, a scene with a dominatrix came on. My wife then teased me and said you better be good or I will spank you. I said, maybe I will like it. Then she said, you would like to not be the dominant one? I said, maybe, how will I know until I try. Then she started talking tough to me, calling me a b**ch and I was laughing because she is so the opposite of that. We were both laughing but when I told her she could never do it, it seemed like she took that as a challenge.
We joked about it as we went to bed and when I kissed her good night she said, I didn't give you permission to touch me, and she was trying real hard to stay in character. I asked her if she would buy the leather dominatrix outfit and she said sure!
She is very naïve and my plan is to educate her on all the different things that go on in various domination scenarios. Of course, I am going to try to lead this into forced feminization. This will probably be my only chance to bring up the subject and she may want to put stockings on me just for the laugh and ludicrousness of it (she has no idea and I am very masculine).
So wish me luck, I may have stumbled onto a backdoor entrance into bringing this topic up in a non threatening way!