i would not leave a letter , like others have said let the chips fall where they may.
my kids know some what. SO knows , i when i go im gone what do i care
i would not leave a letter , like others have said let the chips fall where they may.
my kids know some what. SO knows , i when i go im gone what do i care
I think it does matter what happens after we die ( I hate the word "pass", it tries to hide the the fact someone's dead ) because otherwise why do we leave a will & ensure our finances are in order. So life is easier for those grieving & having to sort everything. I had to empty my Dad's house & it's a big enough job without the shock of discovering a big secret. Leaving a letter of explanation with your will seems an acceptable way of revealing a CD secret to family.
Divinnia - I understand the desire to try and make our death easier for our loved ones, but isn't a letter left explaining a crossdressing secret a shock? If you really want to spare them a discovery shock after your death, you either confide in them your secret while still alive (which may not be easy or desirable), or you stop dressing and purge (which might also not be easy or desirable), or you arrange to have someone help out by disposing of your feminine stuff. A letter only explains what you hid from them and might be even more hurtful because you did not confide your secret with them while you were still with them.Originally Posted by Davinnia
You don't have to be old to die. Especially if your wife and you die at the same time.
Being dead and leaving evidence of crossdressing around is something I haven't really thought about. The real solution is to stop dressing and get rid of the evidence. Most of us are not going to do that.
It is something to think about and I'm sure we will each find our on solutions depending on our individual circumstances. There's no "fits all" solution.
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