Because I'm married to a woman who doesn't know that I dress, I have to resort to other ways to deal with my desire to dress. I bought some men's underwear online that comes in pink and purple colors. They even look kind of like Brazilian cut panties but they fit my package. Other options are brightly colored running tights when I work out. It's become acceptable for men to wear Capri pants while jogging so that's a new option for us.
One last thing that I do: whenever my wife wears my sweat pantsor hoodies, I go and put on a pair of her yoga pants. She likes the feeling of my sweats, and then she can't complain about me wearing her stuff. I'd prefer to wear a skirt or dress, but that's not going to fly with her.
