My wife is 100% DADT. She knows that I have a few items, but doesn't want to see anything and doesn't seem to want to discuss it. A few weeks ago, she cleaned out her closet. She a had a pile of old clothes that she was going to throw out or donate or whatever. I noticed a pair of her old yoga pants and tank top which I took for myself and put in my stash. Well she noticed them and asked why I had them. She wasn't too happy and we got into a whole unpleasant discussion. She said that she is trying to understand and be supportive of my CDing but she is worried that it is going to progress to a point where she will be completely unable to accept, (she is afraid that I will want to dress like a woman full time). Also, she seems ok with the fact that I bought a few items for myself, but she isn't comfortable with me wearing her clothes, even if she doesn't want them anymore. Anyway after a while we kissed and made up. Two days later I found one of her nice shirts on my side of the closet folded up neatly. I noticed a big dye spot on the front, (she is a cosmetologist and it isn't uncommon to get hair dye on her clothes). In all of my optimism, I thought that she left the shirt for me on purpose because it is ruined by the dye spot; and she is becoming more accepting after the discussion that we had a few days prior; and that she might not see the harm in me wearing HER clothes. So I asked her about it. She replied in disgust that she left it there by accident when she was organizing her side of the closet... bummer.