Kate T
Re "Gender is a social construct" comment. Like I say, I roll my eyes when I see it mentioned. Playing devil's advocate here, those who say this would seemingly counter your comment by saying you're not referring to gender, but to biological sex.
I, personally, don't know where I stand on this particular issue. I've read some very convincing arguments both for and against, but it does seem to boil down to how the word "gender" is, not so much defined, but rather interpreted. I do feel that people who engage in such a debate are arguing the same point, but from a different perception as to what the word is meant to convey. For example, some have a problem with trans women being identified as female but not being identified as women. Others however have a problem with trans women being called women at all. It's a linguistic minefield, or so it seems!
Re your comment about Caitlyn Jenner. Firstly, it's not that I'm wanting to claim "true diversity". It's that I no longer feel that I can relate to how people both within and outside of the trans "community" (sorry Krissi) are (for want of a better word) defining transgendered people. I simply can not relate anymore. So I'm looking inward, towards myself, and instead of trying to change or "rail against "prejudices"", I'm instead asking myself, maybe I'm not trans at all - if I can't relate to any perceived understanding or definition of what the word means, then maybe that's because the word and it's meaning has no value to me. So I like to wear women's clothing? Well, apparently, there are people who are now saying that that doesn't even equate to being "transgender". Rather it simply equates to being "gender fluid".
In respect to Caitlyn Jenner - if regarding her as a joke, as a person who is removed from society, makes me a guilty of bigotry, then I'm guilty of bigotry. That said, what I can't abide is the pedastal that Caitlyn resides. Just as, I presume, many many women can't abide Kim Kardashian et al. Does that make such women bigots against women? If I am a bigot for not liking Caitlyn Jenner for "being herself", then women the world over are bigots for not liking Kim K for "being herself" either.
With all due respect, I don't have to carefully re-read what I wrote. I know exactly what I am getting at. If you think that makes me a bigot at worst, or hypocritical at least, then so be it.