Watched the Ellen DeGeneries show a few days ago and she had Matt Lower (Good Morning America) on as a guest, he comes walking out in 4 inch sequined heels with an ankle strap and wearing skin tight straight girl jeans. Ellen says I couldn't walk from here to there in them and he responds by saying, "this isn't my first rodeo" and he didn't walk like a beginner in heels. After laughs they say they joke and pull pranks on each other. So I'm wondering, why did he choose to come on stage dressed like that, how could he walk so well in 4 inch spikes and stand up so easily from setting in a cushy chair, "this is not my first rodeo" referring to his wearing women's heels. Is he a cross dresser??? BTW he didn't look very good dressed like that, maybe we don't either even though our minds and mirrors tell us we do and the public sees us differently when we go out as I saw him. To pass and be pleasing to the public's eye there has to be more than his presentation. If you go out in drab just make sure your fem items blend and don't stand out to catch someone's sharp eye, and if it's more than drab make sure it can be seen as a woman. To me this was a reality check to not let our minds and mirrors make us think we are girly and pass when we don't.