I have tried on women's shoes and heels in four or five different Payless stores wearing hose and all the SA's were perfectly normal and helpful with me doing this. I have had positive comments from women trying on heels beside me as to how they liked the heels I was wearing. Two SA's in different stores encouraged me to wear the shoes out of their store and into the mall and home. Wearing three inch heel boots under my girl jeans and walking in the mall I just blend in. Is acceptance coming?