Does anyone else get the feeling that there are "tiers" on this site? Not all of us are lucky and are brave enough to be "out" to our SO's or anyone for that matter. I have seen a lot of post recently where those of us in the closet seem to be looked upon as 2nd class or coach around here. There is the group that pontificates on not telling your spouse. The group that bloviates on how simply and easy going out in public is, as if not doing so is cowardly or not "owning" your CD self. I am truly happy for those that venture out in the world. I try to always post an "atta girl" for those brave girls, but a lot of the "out girls" seem to take a condescending approach when reply to those of us that are still "in". And I am not talking about myself personally. I pick it up on lots of posts here. Today there was even a post about selfies with smiles being fake and the only good smile was a candid. Not all of us are out and having folks take candids of us at the ball sipping champagne. We are still stuck in the bedroom or bathroom getting our girl on.........sorry to rant......just seems like I see more and more of this daily around here......