The title pretty much says it all, my situation is like this my wife is aware of my dressing she's seen me dress and we have been to Vegas together with me dressed twice in two years.
So here's the deal she really doesn't want me to be this way, I've told her it is a part of me but she much would prefer it to go away.
It's been a major strain on our marriage especially over the last few since I've come to accept myself.
I do understand her and yet I so wish she could understand me and how this effects me.
I don't want us to move on from one another because I deeply care and love her, however I've been a terrible husband over the years. It's difficult for me to back away for much longer then a few weeks in my dressing.
I've made some local cd friends but she feels it would not be a good idea to meet up just to shop or go out. I have a hard time understanding that but yet I do understand.
So anyway I want her happy and I want her to accept as much of me as she can but how and how do I not make it so bad for her that she's not proud to call me her husband I'm just so want to make our lives work best for us both.
We have been together 33 years and I don't want to let that be for nothing
Leigh