My wife has not seen me wearing anything but heels before today. However as soon as we decided the kids were asleep, she said: "Why don't you put on that pink top you have with your heels tonight." I was nervous she would react poorly to actually seeing it, but took the leap of faith and did it anyway. I was in guy mode complete with beard and mustache other than those two items. We watched a TV show, and then sat a talked about stuff for an hour (only about 5 minutes about CDing). She was so awesome! So accepting! She didn't make a big deal about it, but said that while it felt a little odd it didn't really bother her. I had kind of wanted to get all the way to passable girl before I showed her, but now I'm glad I went along with her plan for baby steps. As for me, I don't know how to describe how I felt, only that it felt good and somehow just felt right.
Daphne