just my position at this time and wondered how many think they fit this description, half a closeteer one could say, not out to co-workers or neighbors, its still kept private for my wife.....what do you consider the good and the bad....
good(+)
im out to my wife
no shopping for stuff with her
have a closet for my CDing things (locked to keep prying teenage eyes from prying)
i gone out into the wild briefly
attend support group dressed both ways
i believe my family knows
just started a meetup with my wife's blessing (financial decision)
not as worried doing things in guy mode (shopping for girl stuff, asking about appointments for wig and makeup inquiries, trying on girls clothes while male)
bad(-)
finances keep my from some of the bucket list stuff ( new hope, transformation studios, makeovers)
cant leave the house dressed per our concerns
shes not a fashionista and doesnt shop much
family does not talk about it so i assume they do not approve
have not made any personal forum friends (virtual is cool but you know)
support group is mostly young FtM (would have never thought that)
dont have many friends from rumors during HS that followed me through life....