hello all, best wishes to you all. new here and hope for some help. been closeted my whole life. mainly due to the fear of ridicule and being disowned by brother and family. I am 6+ft. tall and over 255. I am in no way feminine looking and am kind of a manly man. my dream is for everyone in the world to just not care and except us all for who we are. anyway I am married in a totally sexless relationship and get to dress 2 to 4 times a week for short periods when alone. I want to go out dressed. I am bi and have thought about going to a gay bar because of the acceptance factor. I am not certain about what my wife would say so I have not told her. in fact this is the first real discussion I have ever had about it. some thoughts please. thanks in advance for the advice