As have been stated and posted here by members of the community and myself in different threads. Recently I have come to face the fact and have finally learned to be comfortable with the way I am as a CDer. Over my years there have been countless battles with my ownself of what is right or wrong and especially with the question, "who am I".
So my question for you is... "Have you finally come to face your own "self" and can you be truthful with your answer to "yourself" with the simple fact that you are a CDer and this is not going to change?"
I would really like to hear your thoughts and comments, whether they are good or bad. Thanks.
Again over time I found that, I have pretty much wasted years off from my life, facing these self imposed "Demons". Might as well say, I chained them to my own leg and dragged them around over the years, even though I tried hiding them away, in closed closets or boxes of my own making. But every time I looked around, there they were still hanging on my leg, dragging across the floors of time.
And the names of these self made "Demons" that I have battle and fought endlessly over the years.
1. Shame... shame of who I am, which is a CDer and what attracts me to CDing, the shame of the feminine feelings and the sexual desires of such.
2. Guilt... the guilt of who I am, a CDer and the pleasures I gain from CDing, especially the sexually and the inner desires gained from dressing in women's clothing.
3. Fear... fear of showing others, whether it is family or community of who I really am or the fear of being rejected by these same people.
4. Loathing... the self battering and self undermining of who I am and from what I do.
5. Hiding... always seem to be hiding from "yourself" with the fact that I am a CDer. But also the non ending years of hiding this fact from family or community.
6. Lust... that feeling and anticipation of lust for CDing, that is always in the back of mind and comes out in the open while we dressing the part as a CD.
7. Gratitude... the self gratification we seek and try to find while CDing.
I might have missed a few of my own self imposed demons. But again time has shown me finally, this "is really me". And for all the self battles and inner fighting over the years, there is nothing I can do to change it or interfere with this one single and simple fact. I am a "crossdresser".
Would really like to hear what you have to say. And also at this time, want to say that I am sorry for the number of times the word "I" is used here in this post.
Again thank you.