When I was in girl mode i was thinking about styles and fashion but in boy mode I don't really care.
Girl mode: put on make up for 1 hour.
Boy mode: forgot to shave and went to the office with that bed hair.
Anyone else feels the same?
When I was in girl mode i was thinking about styles and fashion but in boy mode I don't really care.
Girl mode: put on make up for 1 hour.
Boy mode: forgot to shave and went to the office with that bed hair.
Anyone else feels the same?
Pretty much. Boy mode, scruffy face, slobby clothes, just don't care. Girl mode - I pay attention to everything, and take the utmost care putting it on to make sure it looks right.
Nope, I am very concerned about my appearance in male mode. Clothes have to match. hygiene is always a must for me. I would never go to a store or anywhere in public in sweatpants, or all dirty from doing outdoor work. I hate being grubby.
Chickens should be allowed to cross the road without having their motives questioned
I'm kinda halfway in between. I definitely pay way more attention to detail when dressing in girl mode, makeup takes at least an hour, clothes have to be fashionable and match perfectly down to the shoes. In boy mode, I agree, never sweat pants in public, clothes have to be clean and well fitting but can be unmatched and I'll go out on the weekend unshaven. In boy mode I can be out of the house in 10 minutes if I have to.
I don't like hair on my face at all so for work I am clean shaven and I try to be well groomed nice hair and all.
I mean it's just jeans and a golf shirt but I don't like slob look in any mode
In girl mode it's all or none. In boy mode it's strictly for comfort and my face is lucky to see a razer once every two or three weeks. I do not under dress--EVER. I still don't understand that one.
Jon
For me its an ever changing line from femme to flat. I do underdress on a daily as its just more comfortable to me. I have all but thrown away all of my boxers. Except the cute ones I use for shorts now. Working I am usually in blue jeans and a tshirt so drab is the game there. If its cool enough out to wear a light jacket or more then I am most certainly wearing a bra. It keeps the girls happy and supported, plus I find I sit straighter with one on. When its time to relax I usually put on a nice dress or jumper. Makeup doesnt happen very often but when it does I usually try to take my time and do it right. Cant be looking like a clown or street walker. Usually only do that when my so is gone as she tends to want to put her two cents in saying Im doing it wrong or its to much or to little. She tends to like the natural look. So she says. She doesnt seem to grasp that I need a little foundation and such to hide the wiskers and wrinkles. I also keep my hair long but I am in dyre need of a trim.
Its all or none for me. I do not under dress. In girl mode I do it all the way including bling to finish it off. MY So is making me do makeup every other day to get used to it and checks it out every time. In male mode I dress comfortably and don't often shave. But girl mode is all the way. I still wonder why people under dress. I do not understand that.
Part Time Girl
My femme wardrobe is limited next to its male counterpart. Consequently, I sometimes present as a woman while wearing male clothing at home (read: sleeveless top and unisex running shorts) but will never wear a dress out. As a guy I overdress when meeting people, minimally a collared shirt and slacks, with jeans for less formal occasions. As a girl, I wear whatever I have - mostly a variety of dresses, skirts or shorts outfits, with women's jeans drawn from the male wardrobe. For a particularly short dress, I outright wear a skirt as a 'cute' strapless dress.
Last edited by Lily Catherine; 03-15-2016 at 10:35 AM.
I think people under dress because that is the only way they can be out in public and feel fem. They can't or don't have the nerve to openly dress female. Marshalynn
Chloe,
I always fully shave even in male mode, so I never miss an opportunity to dress and feel smooth, otherwise it can be frustrating knowing you'll need to shave first if you get the chance to dress.
I'm usually clean and neat as a boy or girl. Probably more OCD then boy vs girl thing. My boy clothes are always the same though jeans and a button down shirt very drab. In girl mode I'll try anything and often do.
I enjoy being a boy, being a GIRL like me!!!
Nope! In boy mode I try to look nice also, just not feminine.
Hugs, Carole
Nope, Chrissi and Chris both dress stylishly, preppie and classic.
Smile! You'll always brighten someone's day, including your own from their return smile!
guy mode...old t-shirt and jeans with sneakers and out the door.
Otherwise...a thoughtful period in front of my open closet deciding what to wear.
a nice shower (with shave of course) patting dry and moisturizing my legs and arms.
slipping on fresh panties and bra with forms followed by makeup application.
Choice of hair to suit my mood and my outfit
dressing and checking my appearance in the full length mirror, touching up my hair and making certain I have everything in my purse that I need.
Walk to the car and think about the day to come...
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
In guy mode I am very relaxed and comfy. Jeans t-shirt and a sweatshirt.
Girl mode is completely different. I put on my panties and bra. Do my makeup for an hour plus. Do my hair. Then pick out an outfit. And have it all planned out.
Girl mode I wear panties cami girl jeans girl shirt girlie z socks n shoes etc.
Boy mode came as above .
boy mode is shorts and t-shirt.
girl mode
I love wearing dresses or skirts with nice blouse, I like a bit of the trampy look, skirt above the knee so when I sit it rises to mid thigh, I like a blouse that is semi shear so my black bra can be noticed, love high wearing heels and what it does for the leg muscles, nylons are a must, usually black, silky and shiny, I prefer stockings so when my skirt comes up enough the stocking top will be seen, I will wear pantyhose sometimes.
In girl mode I wear girl jeans , panties and blouse or girl t-shirt and clear nail polish on my hands , pink on my toes. Boy mode I wear the same. More often t-shirts than blouses though.
I enjoy looking smart either way. Have never bought a pair of blue jeans. Always shave even if I'm running late. I,'ll do a double take in the full length mirror in the hall before I head out in smart suit. My wife says I'm a peacock. Which I take as a complement. Most of the time I wear chinos and polo shirts in boy mode. That's pretty much my idea of casual scruffy. Shoes though that's the odd exception. I love training shoes have several pairs on the go at any one time and ony have two pairs of black leather shoes. When dressed I love pencil skirts and flowing lightweight Mediterranean style dresses. So in short think my tastes remain similar, drab or dressed.
Last edited by Jane G; 03-08-2016 at 07:53 PM.
When I am working my shop I where coveralls and old cloths as I often get them dirty with glue, and finish. If I am going out as a guy with my wife I want to look professional and clean cut. As a Girl I will almost always wear dresses with stockings and heels. I want to emulate the sexy looking professional business woman.
My overall goal is to blur the lines all together. I'd like to create a "look" that is just "me". That would work in either situation whether I have to be masculine or feminine.
The only restriction I have is work and moms house. Work, because we have to wear uniforms, and mom... well because she's mom.
Of course when doing hands on dirty work, "guy clothes" are in order as they are just lower maintence, you can just throw them in the wash and not worry about minor stains. My wife said she approves of some of my more "elegant" dresses and such for our dates, although I haven't taken her up on that yet, it suggest me to me that I don't have to worry about a nice pair of men's clothes.
But once the weather warms up, I've been buying some cool women's tank tops, and I already have a pretty good seletion of flowy hippie skirts. Might just all my hair grow out, head, arms, legs, etc, throw on my old worn out sandals, sit by the river, and do the hippie thing. I think such a look would work in either "mode".
I dont care about my facial hair in boy mode but I realy hate facial hair in girl mode, I cannot shave it enough
I care less about my clothes and hair in boy mode, thats for sure.
~~Just seeking happiness~~
I would never be considered a 'dandy' because I simply am not always checking my own appearance, so I come off as a bit 'rough' around the edges. But I shave and shower every day, nails are trimmed, I wear clothes that would be appropriate in any business setting. Dress slacks, dark socks & dress shoes. About 90% of the time I'll wear a button down shirt, occasionally a tie. Unless I'm going to a game, a blazer and not a windbreaker. I try to keep my hair combed, but I forget to check it after coming out of a windy area so I might look a little disheveled.
As a girl, everything in order, nothing wrinkled, but as I don't go out, I don't worry about make up. I do keep my hair nice, though.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
having a foot in each one I tend to dress to blend enough so it is hard to tell the diff between phil and phylis kinda like a tomboy/girl and underdress at work
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