Hi everyone I finally told my wife that I was crossdresser i've been with her for 14 years married for 4 years she took it a little hard at first she says she does not like she also said that she still loves me and that she's not leaving me but I know it still bother her she does not like it I try not to talk about it and I still keep it hidden every now and then she kind of brings it up I could tell she is scared about it I just don't know why I did tell her that I was not going to do surgical although my sex life got better with her I guess that's always a good thing does anyone have any suggestions that I can help ease her pain and look at it in a good way