Hi Amalie, I can't really add anything to what these wonderful supportive ladies have said. I totally agree that you are a most beautiful young lady and if you follow these ladies advice you will be fine. My advice on dressing if you don't want to be noticed is to first observe what other young women are wearing, and try to copy what they wear, and you can't go wrong. As far as your voice goes there are web sites that will help you develope a more female voice. I think that I saw a post about that here at sometime. Ask the community and I am sure someone will know. Good luck and happy dressing