Gender fluid? Where's your fluid flowing?

[Robin414]

Does it pool in one place? Is it flowing inevitably to the pink side? Is it flowing inevitably to a purge?

Me, I seriuosly don't know...how about you!

[Amalie]

For me, it's definitely flowing toward the pink side nowadays, have been going on strong in that direction since I begain really practicing my fem side..
And though I hope that won't change, I fear that it someday will.. (if/when though I also hope I can resist a purge, and that the fog will soon roll in again denser than ever).


Edit: Thought I'd add; (if it's what you wish at least) I sure hope you find that spark again, Robin

[Anita Cosmolover]

Definitely to the pink side - and loving it!

[reb.femme]

Once again, there's a gag somewhere in that title.

Mine is edging pinkward, as I love my dressing and can't get enough at the moment. Glory!

Becky

[phylis anne]

like homer homer simpson and his pink donut mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm more pink please

[ossian]

I think I got poured into a blender. I'm all pink blue and bubbly.

[Sometimes Steffi]

I had to go look the term up. The entire concept projects an image to me of one of those long rectangular tilting objects where it rocks slowly back and forth and fluid gathers on one end and then rolls back to the other end. I think if you are going to always project as either male or female you're no longer "gender fluid."

Mine swishes back and forth between pink and blue ike this

wave machine.jpg

Right now I'm still on the pink side coming down from the Keystone high, but it's turning blue again.

[gailprice]

I've asked this similar question. To me, it means "however the mood takes me pink or blue and maybe somewhere in between" anyway that is what I was told.
But for me, it's mostly pink mmmmm lovely pink...............

Gail xxxx

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Robin, The bubble on my CD level stays right in the middle.

[Alice Torn]

At the present, backing away from pink. Have not dresses for a week or so, felt like it several times, but just could not. Other more important things to deal with, take action on. There are other issues to deal with. maybe i will be up to it later. You never know what a day will bring.

[Lucey]

Have been dressing a little more these days than in the past and it is because I'm happy with myself and CDing. Most of my outfits are long length dresses, granny style you might say and they pretty much leave out any sex appeal, but I love wearing them and feel so wonderful & feminine. LoL

So I'm just about in the middle, not pink or blue, but happy.

[Sarah Doepner]

Recently I started describing myself as gender fluid but on reflection that may not be quite as accurate as I thought. I was asked about how much or how often I dress en femme and how I felt about it. My response was I'm dressing much more often and for longer times now and I like it, sometimes a lot, sometimes it just feels normal and correct. But I never get that feeling about myself when I'm dressed as a man. It doesn't make me feel right or wrong, there is just nothing to it at all. And I never "not like" dressing as a woman, there simply isn't a negative component to it, only opportunities to improve. So I guess the pool here is filling up on the pink side.

[phili]

I'm trying to let the flow happen, and just observe.

I was used to repressing the feminine until I couldn't stand it and had to dress up, and it seemed like I needed to be one way or the other. Now I am trying to pay attention to my feelings and choose clothing freely. I'm a bit constrained on that since my wife doesn't like me to be too explicitly feminine, but that has revealed a good challenge of how to feel and be feminine without the symbols of femininity, especially the clothing perks!

Delayed gratification in moderation is a good practice, and I have quite a bit of free time so can enjoy that time in pink fully.

I'm convinced now that my bottomless hunger for feminine clothes is a result of pent up denial, and so I am trying to gather as many experiences as I can to get over that hump, and take ownership of clothing and behavior choice. Just like biological sex and emotional gender are not connected, clothing is not actually connected to emotional gender. Taking the focus off clothing and putting it on to emotional state is a useful way to watch pink and blue ebb and flow, appear in momentary spots, or not even be on my mind- which is a relief.

[Mykaa]

Well Robin, I may be more fluid than I thought, also this is a new term for me. I am hetero for sure, Since recently accepting myself, A very large weight was lifted, I dress more often, maybe more conservative. I am much happier, I dress almost every day now to some level. I have never purged anything I own, to be rid of it on my behalf. I do wonder where this path Im on is going to lead, maybe a new SO. Fear and distrust have kept that thought away. My ex has used me being CD on me many times.
AT this point I see things with possibility, so we will see. Happy Day.

[Nadine Robles]

Returnig to pink, slowly but surely

[Mayo]

Holding more or less steady at about 20% female at the moment. Of course that's an entirely subjective measure.

[Dana44]

For me it seemed to lean towards the pink. But now it is back in balance of 50/50. I am fine with that.

[Beverley Sims]

Like the moon and tide, I am sure it ebbs and flows.

Just watch out for a full moon. :-)

[Stephanie47]

I had to go look the term up. The entire concept projects an image to me of one of those long rectangular tilting objects where it rocks slowly back and forth and fluid gathers on one end and then rolls back to the other end. I think if you are going to always project as either male or female you're no longer "gender fluid."

Me? It's boy or girl. I feel no difference in my inner self whether attired, as today, in a dress, hosiery, heels and undergarments, or in my cut off jeans, tee shirt and beat up sneakers. I am comfortable either way. My wife has been visiting her cousin out of state. I've had the opportunity to be fully en femme all day and night. I am comfortable wearing women's clothing because it brings me a sense of serenity. Wearing women's relieves stress. If there was no reason to go back to my male clothes would I continue to be en femme 100% of the time? Would I purge my boy clothes? I don't know. I know I can present as either male or female and feel very comfortable either way.

I really do not ascribe any particular attribute to either a male or female. It's always been the clothes. Very confusing concept, no?

[Allisa]

I don't think of it as a specific "thing" as much as it is a state of mind and a merging of two "genders" to complete me as a person. I feel that I can flow from expression (my CDing) without the external stimulation of certain clothing, thus my more femme appearance at times without the total transformation. "Urges" are not a part of my being, therefor I am fluid i.e. go with the flow. Although situations do dictate my presentation(vocation, work attitude).

[Rachael Leigh]

I think my edges toward the pink side but even as it does I seem to be working on trying to find the balance that works best for me and my relationship with my wife who in some ways has become more accepting but I still have a ways to go

[mykell]

Like the moon and tide, I am sure it ebbs and flows.

Just watch out for a full moon. :-)

i can relate to this.....and theirs that gag

[pamela7]

it's all run downhill into the pink lagoon :-)

[Robin414]

I'm thinking you might be right Pamela, is it a soft landing? 😦

[pamela7]

I'm thinking you might be right Pamela, is it a soft landing? 😦

Yes, velvet-y/satin-y, lush. Actually I really fancy a fully-pink day before I dive into a week with clients 24/7. I'm not sure they've seen my facebook piccie from January, so let's just say they might be a little surprised when I collect them at the airport Thursday lunchtime. I have the pinkiest of pink nails this week, and it will be dresses all the way.

I'm designing a new website to offer my services no longer as the male known person, but as Pamela, it's all rainbow fun now :-)