Was on net and found out there's an actual festival where men crossdress to worship a goddess in India. It's called the Kottankulangara Festival.watched few videos of it and everyone seems normal and didn't care if men crossdressed. Even mothers and fathers taking there son dressed as girl. I wish I could go there but I think only people of hindu religion are allowed I'm not sure. Anybody been there or knows any other such festival please share.