Well we have not had any of our kids live with us for 12 years until now. My 38 year old son who was getting disability income has now moved in with us since the Feds in their infinite wisdom have now denied his benefits. The long and short of it is that I used to be able to dress at home pretty much all the time and now I have to only dress outside the house. I even took my toenail polish off because it is too weird to walk around all the time with socks on. I had to pay his bills for the last 18 months while we fought the ruling and now I had to cut my losses and have him temporarily move in with us. He's a great son but does not know of Sandra and the wife wants to keep it that way so for now, she's in hiding. I am going to buy a fixer upper house for him in my town but and that will be a priority, sooner the better, Sandra Michelle likes her privacy and of course her clothes. In the grand scheme of things this is just a small bump in the road but felt it was time to vent my frustration so you are all the foil to vent upon. Thanks for listening, good to get this off my chest!!!!